Oswoić odmowę bliskości. Z zagadnień definiowania tożsamości w przedwojennej liryce Marii Pawlikowskiej‑Jasnorzewskiej

Abstract

The experience of refusal is usually classified as an inconvenient mental state, deprived of comfort, which is why it becomes the source of increased observation of emotions, reaction. It may lead to destructive behavior extended in time, or initiate various mechanisms for identifying themselves as self in changed, unwanted and often surprising situation. This also demands finding ourselves in the situation when a loved one “unsubscribes” from reciprocity, closeness, intimacy, when he denies himself entity, when present and future demand definitive reformulation. A state of finding our own norms to control a disorder, feeling of threat and confusion, self-confidence in the situation that destroys existing order, willingness and courage to understand and accept ourselves and to forgive the one who hurt us may be called success. These poetic issues present “you” characterized by desire, so as “its image would dissolve’’ and introduce a sigh that connotes uncertainty and a suggestion of experience of loss.